Send Silence Packing frequently gets comments and thoughts from people passing by during the display. There are people from all different walks of life who have had so many different experiences. We get comments of support as well as many people that share their personal history with mental illness and suicide. There is a supportive environment created at the display that makes people comfortable enough to share what they have gone through.

We noticed at Worcester, as well as our other stops, that the traveling journal has also been a remarkable space for people to share their thoughts and comments. For those that have not been to a display, we have a journal that travels with us to each event. Chapters decorate a page and visitors have a chance to write their thoughts and feelings throughout the day. There have been many different types of reflections left and they are all an important and meaningful piece to making the journal so special.

Here are a few of the messages left from Worcester Polytechnic Institute:

“This display is so moving and powerful. It made me realize how happy I am that I pushed through the darkness and stopped the silence. Thank you.”

“The number of families and friends affected by college student suicides every year is astounding. This display emphatically gets that message across. My thoughts and prayers go out to all those who have lost loved ones.”

“This display has really helped me, as well as my treatment, to realize that if you are thinking of suicide – talk to someone ASAP. It really does make a difference if you talk to the right person.”

There is something profound about the impact that the journal has had on people. There have been notes to loved ones lost to suicide, messages of promise, statements of thanks, and stories shared in its pages. It is an amazing way to connect the campuses and cities with each other. There is something about a blank space on paper that encourages people to leave their messages to others. Reading these words inspires people to continue sharing their thoughts and gives a voice of hope and support, even if you will never meet the person who wrote it.

When we do the Send Silence Packing display, whether it is on a college campus or not, there are always people that ask why we choose college students as our focus. It is important to remember that mental health is a huge importance at any stage in life. But college is a time of transition, bringing a whole lot of change for young adults. This is the first time that many people are leaving home – which comes with a list of new responsibilities. Not only do they have to learn how to live independently, they have to learn healthy ways of taking care of themselves and a lot of times, nobody tells them how to but expects them to know.

College is seen as the ‘time of your life’ and people always say that you should take advantage of it while you’re still at a university. People are trying new things, making new friends, discovering who they are. This seems like a period where people are always happy and always adventuring. Students are expected to know what they want and how to get it. A lot of times we don’t think to take a step back and make sure we are taking care of ourselves. College is a stressful time for a student that is not struggling with mental health issues, but when something seems off knowing where to turn is extremely important.

While we were at Syracuse, there were a lot of campus tours coming through the display of perspective students. There were campus administrators, professors, and parents that were interested in the display. Some thought it was a great idea, others weren’t such fans. But when we got the chance to explain to speculators, they understood the importance of reaching out to students before they start college. Some parents admitted that they hadn’t thought about the importance of mental health once their child goes to college and that Send Silence Packing was a great opportunity for them to remind their kids to find ways to take care of themselves while they are away from home.

During a conversation with one of the campus administrators, I was asked why I thought doing Send Silence Packing was necessary, especially with student tours coming through. She said that she was hesitant for them to see the display. I replied that her hesitance was one of the reasons for us to be on campus that day. The fact that adults are still choosing not to talk about mental health and are, to an extent, ignoring its importance is the reason we NEED to be on campuses. It is so important for Active Minds chapters to be at colleges and universities all over the United States: to reach out to students and help them to speak up.

It can be hard to deal with mental health issues while going through college because it seems like everyone else doesn’t feel the way you feel. Students are expected to be happy about being in college, and to appreciate that opportunity without complaints. This makes it harder for students to understand that they are not alone in their struggles. But nobody is alone. There are so many resources and friends that you can reach out to. Active Minds is here to teach people how to be a support to others that are having a hard time and to feel comfortable reaching out when they need help.

The Active Minds chapter at Syracuse did an amazing job showing their support for their fellow classmates. They are yet another group of students dedicated to changing the conversation about mental health.

We talk a lot about the conversations we have during the displays. Everywhere we go we hear stories and questions as visitors read the backpacks and explore the event. We hear from people that live close to this issue every day and from people that are just now beginning their journey in learning about mental health. We experience thousands of these interactions and we try to share them with you, but something that happened at this display reminded me of something we haven’t given as much attention to.Towards the end of the display two volunteers approached us. “We thought you should see this,” they said as they handed a post-it note over to us, “someone left this on the table over there.” We had no idea what to expect. The note read:

“I have been contemplating suicide for awhile now. After reading these stories, I made an appointment with Creekside Counseling. Thank you.”

There are so many different ways to begin breaking the silence about mental health, and they don’t have to be huge leaps when you’re just getting started. The subject matter at Send Silence Packing is a very strong and emotional topic, and not everyone can be expected to interact with it the same way. For every person we speak to, there are others that experience the display on their own level, and that is just as important. We never had a chance to personally interact with the visitor that left this note, but they were able to experience it at their own speed and take something incredible away from it.Breaking the silence is a sign of strength, whether it’s immediately opening up to those around you or taking small and steady steps through storytelling, interaction, or learning. This visitor chose to seek the help they needed while not directly interacting with anyone else. Others choose to tell us about their upcoming journey as soon as they start. Some take information to learn at their own pace before taking further action. All of these are fantastic paths, and there’s is no “right way” to begin, or continue, mental health education and awareness. Taking the steps that feel comfortable to you is what is more important—as long as you’re making that choice to move forward.

At the start of the tour, we spoke with someone who explained how important it is to have tools available to stay healthy mentally. These tools can be something different for everyone, so having options to explore is a great start. The chapter at Wesleyan was well aware of this used it for an interactive addition to the day’s event. As visitors read bags, spoke with volunteers, and collected resources, they were also able to add a post-it note to a giant board in the middle of the display that asked “what makes you happy?” Anyone that passed by was encouraged to write down things that make them happy and tape them to a board everyone was able to read. This was an inspiring piece added to the display, as well as a similar board asking students what they would say to someone that is contemplating suicide.

Send Silence Packing is a powerful and emotional experience. We bring the display to campuses to create an atmosphere where people can begin to realize the importance of taking care of our mental health. Starting meaningful conversations and decreasing the stigma of suicide and mental health is what we work toward. We make an intense statement with Send Silence Packing, and we also encourage people to take an active part in their own mental health as well as the mental health of their loved ones.

Seeing the inspiring messages that were written for people struggling with suicidal thoughts was as amazing reminder of the important role that every single person plays. When struggling with mental health issues, it is easy to forget how much you mean to other people. Seeing written words of encouragement and meaning can be the help that some people need. You can do this by talking to someone and using these words to remind them that they are important and there is someone that cares enough and is willing to . Making a list of things that make you happy is an easy thing to do and a simple reminder of ways to relieve stress. The responses on the board varied greatly—people posted things from ‘sunshine’ to ‘vegan mac & cheese’ throughout the day. Seeing others’ responses reminded students of what they do in their lives to feel better on a bad day or the ways that they can cope with stress in healthy ways. Here are just some of the responses from the “What Makes You Happy?” board at Wesleyan:

• music
• my future
• love from my friends and family
• ice cream
• yoga!
• spinning
• puppies
• going to the gym
• bike ridez
• taking a break, getting off campus
• thunderstorms
• hugs

Seeing the post-its inspired me to make my own list as a reminder of the things I enjoy in life. Use this as a inspiration to make your own list too!

Through our work at Active Minds, we encourage everyone to make a difference in the lives of people they interact with. One way to make a difference is to become a resource to people around you. Letting people know that it is okay for them to come to you if they need to can be extremely helpful. Another way to be a resource is by talking about mental health issues and starting conversations about the importance of taking care of your mental health.


We asked students interacting with the display “who has helped you through a difficult time in your life?” There were an overwhelming number of students that responded with: “My friends and family,” which shows that friends and family members can be a huge support system. There were also students that said therapy and the counseling center has helped them tremendously when they felt that they were struggling with a mental health issue.

Several visitors added backpacks and stories to the display

Students often mentioned their mom or dad being a great source of comfort to them through a tough time. That relationship can grow stronger when parent and child know that they have each other to reach out to. Talk to your parents openly about creating a support system when there are times that you feel like you are struggling. Another huge support mention was siblings. Brothers and sisters, whether older or older, can be a huge reminder of your importance. Siblings can remind you of reasons why your family needs you.

Friends are a great support while living on campus. Many students are away from family for the first time, so making lasting relationship with other students can be very important. Knowing that you have someone that you can turn to that may be dealing with similar things is a comfort that students can take advantage of. Whether you are feeling depressed, anxious, or having any other mental health issues having a friend can make all the difference.

Students can take advantage of the counseling center and various student-run organizations on their campus. Many campuses offer free or low-cost counseling services to students throughout the year. The University of Connecticut’s Active Minds chapter and many other mental health and suicide prevention organizations work hard to make sure that students have all the resources they need on campus. Sometimes it helps to know that someone that doesn’t know you cares enough to help you through a tough time.  There are always resources when you are in need, so never give up searching for the right fit for you.







The National Suicide Lifeline is open at all times to anyone in the United States. Please call 1-800-273-TALK if you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide.